Commentary about "Where's Duesberg"

VIOLENCE IN LIFE AND DREAMS - Of course what is so bad about violence against us is that it overwhelms us. So as a life problem when we are in danger of being overwhelmed we should seek effective support to help us get through a rough period in our lives. Marie, it is good that you can share so fully about yourself, your dreams and your problem. But our Forum cannot directly help you, where maybe insight is not enough. If you are a young teenager, you need probably to seek the support of local groups or agencies where you live. Women's groups? Local government. Keep seeking help until you find people who will really help you and give you practical things to make you feel safe again. Invasion of all your orifaces can be like, crazy-making. Free sex with persons can also induce a sense of weak boundaries, or who you really are. Sex with someone you trust usually means that you will still be respected and protected as a person by your lover. You must have protection in life that works. In what you report you are not allowed to have much definition of yourself and be who you are in life. Your boundaries are not respected. Nor are you strong enough to maintain them, it seems like. So then, still, believe in yourself, save yourself, seek and keep searching for those people who will help you, not exploit you. For whatever reasons, if your parents fit these dream images and impressions, they are not able to protect you and care for you like any person or child should be cared for. You have to make your way out of a terrible situation as best you can, if that is what is really happening for you now? We don't know you or your life from here. Seek help locally. And never give up hope. Where there is hope there is light. Best, - Strephon